I read this at Mommy Yen's blog and I want to share it with you :)
"A HEARSAY can be convincing but ain’t factual DON’T be deceived follow this simple steps:
Stop giving/ making comments that could aggravate the situation further, don’t react stay calm, low life freak will find it amusing if s/he saw your volatile reaction, stop gratifying his/her needs so s/he will stop fabricating stories. Look straight to his/her eyes, for the eyes the window of the soul, does s/he has soul? does s/he has a moral issue? or HAS trouble defining it? is s/he reliable? use your assessment skills to this person instead of over- reacting be proactive in dealing with the situation, remember the growth and development theory, if certain stages goes wrong, there’s a huge impact of what you will become(sad but true). Listen to your brain, anatomically, brain is placed above the heart so we can think and not merely being emotional, if you let your emotions devour you, your judgement will be BIASED AND HAMPERED, you have blessed with the gift of wisdom use it wisely by: Clarifying the situation to the person concern as early as possible, don’t play by the ear, always remember to stay calm, approach the person nicely and tact, stay professional and maintain your ego. IF THE PERSON CONCERN ASKED WHO SAID THAT? TELL HIM HONESTLY, HONESTY BEGETS HONESTY, An open dialogue will resolve an issue, possibly win back a healthy relationship once built, but however if it turns into a conflict because you’re neglecting to face the music then let mother nature heal the shattered pieces. Don’t allow this low life freak steal your healthy relationship from your friends, work and little community there’s no need TO LOSE FRIENDS AND ALIENATE PEOPLE. BUT TO KEEP FRIENDS AND ALIENATE LOW LIFE FREAK.
—- FOR Emotionally impaired individuals..simply IGNORE THEM..like toddler’s..yeah..for adults if you really are..SAY WHAT U MEAN..AND MEAN WHAT U SAY..
Here's my latest kalakals from yesterday's trip to outlet :) I got new watches, here they are;



I got some beach bags too :) Will post in in a while.
I love wind chimes, whenever I hear the sounds of wind chimes it helps me the calming and soothing affects will provide peaceful background noise while you work or relaxing in the garden. The gentle sound will comfort a troubled mind. Many people hang wind chimes on their doors or inside the house. These are hollow tubes that clink together to create the attractive noise that peels through the air and brings pleasure while you're working or doing something at home :)
It's been a busy week for me. I've been updating my blogs, kalakals and some other stuff online but I haven't forget to blog hop and visit my friends blogs too :) For those who visited my blogs, thanks you!:) I will visit your blogs for sure!:)
I'm doing my rounds online when I saw this unique wedding favors online. It's nice,Isn't it?:) www.weddingshop.theknot.com has nice selections of unique wedding favors and the prices are affordable too! I just wish I found this when I was planning our wedding two years ago. We don't have a wedding favors because I don't have enough time to look for it. Also my work took most of my time. The bad thing that I did was I didn't get a wedding planner because were trying to stick on our budget. I just wish I did! The wedding planning process was really stressful! I did the planning, reservations and all alone because my husband was out of the country then. But he helped me to looked for suppliers and we choose which supplier to booked. The wedding planning was fun , I just hope my husband was here so he experienced it too :)
- Begin collecting boxes and other packing supplies.
- Start separating and disposing of the items you've designated for a yard sale, donation or the junk yard. I suggest that you just donate it there are a lot of people are waiting for your help most especially those people who are in the tent city. I'm sure the good karma is coming back to you!:)
- Start to have a check list and have a "move date"
- Take advantage ofthe lower rates offered Tuesdays through Thursday and during the first three weeks of the month.
- Buy foods that only good for a 3 days. You don't need to stock food in the fringe!:)
1. Having a good chat with nice friends :)
2. Got additional orders, yipee!!:)
3. I sent the packages for my friends.
4. Picnic at Lake Harriet
5. Reading the benefits of pure ephedrine online.
7. My husband cooked tonight.
8. A good chat with my husband before going to bed.
Oh I love salmon and the maki! It's delicious! yummy!:) Can you believe it? I ate three plates of these *lol* It's good!
It's a long weekend and it's July 4th summer sale!:) yipeee!!! So what do you expect? of course I'll be in the outlet tom morning :) lol addict!:) I have a lot of things to buy on my list, well it's not all mine - it's for my friends, I'm a personal shopper remember?:) And I love it (but not my husband hahahaha)! Anyway, I'm hoping to find a "gold" (it means cheap and nice stuff) there and I'm hoping to get some additional discounts as well!:) Wish me luck!:)
Yesterday, I had a mole removal surgery on my back and on my right legs. My husband couldn't take an off in the office but it's alright it's just a minor surgery so he drop me off in the clinic. The surgery only took a few minutes and I haven't feel any pain. I just felt a little pinch when the doctor gave me an anesthesia. I have a little stitches on where the mole was removed and the doctor said that I will have a little scar on it but it's alright. I just want it to be removed. I will go back to the clinic after 8 days to remove the stitches and they will also give me the result of the biopsy, I'm praying that it's not cancerous.

I really love weekend!:) My husband and I had a fantastic weekend :) We were out and was too busy the whole weekend. The basketball tournament held last weekend. My husband only played the first 30 minutes last Saturday because he needed to go to work for some very important task. I don't have some photos to share because I didn't brought my cam was not in the mood to take some photos :) I just want to enjoy the day and watch the games :) I just stayed with our friends and we went to 98 pound buffet after the game. We were like 48 pax! The food was great. I had crab legs, maki and may favorite salmon! hmmm yummy! My husband came but he didn't eat there because he was full. Also, I was able to see my preggy friends Rona and Rose again! Their tummy is getting bigger, I'm excited to see their babies too! I hope Rona will have a baby boy because this is what they wish for :) I can feel it, they will :)
I've told you in my previous post that I have a new stuff :) I went to outlet yesterday and bought new goodies :) I was talking to my online friend over the phone while I was in the outlet because I was looking for some stock for her as well :) Too bad there was no available lemon C swing pack in there anymore but I'm glad I still have one stock and will give it to her :) Anyway, here's my new stuff you might be interested :)








Just got home from the outlet and guess what? I have new stuffs here! Will post it in a while :) Just make sure to come back tom to see what I have in my magic box :) I bet you're going to love it :) see yeah!:)
1. Today is shopping day!:)
2. My husband will bring me to the outlet tom! yehey!:)
3. New stuffs are coming and still accepting orders :)
4. I got new orders yehey!
5. I'm looking forward to our movie day.
6. Picnic with hubby
7. My husband cooks for me :) sweet! mwah!
8. A good morning kiss and hug from my husband everyday
9. I can't wait for the weekend :)
10. One box will be sent to my friend this week :)
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We enjoyed the show and you could also share some penny if you want :) There were dancing, singing and playing instruments along the street. Some of them are also selling their own CD's. It really shoes that we could find clean ways to survive ;)
lately... I even forgot to post some photos from our previous trip :) It's in my external HDD and still disorganized. Well, you can't blame me, my small business eat a lot of my time :) I'm not complaining besides I'm thankful! I hope the blessing will keep on coming :) Thanks to my friends and to my dear husband for helping me :) mwah!:) Anyway, I would like to share this photo to you. I took this shot in Old Town San Diego when we visited the town last month :)
Today is what I like to call a healthy-bag Tuesday. That means that I've learned a bunch of things about a healthy lifestyle that I'd love to share with you :) Yoga is getting a popular anti stress nowadays and you know that it has a lot of benefits to our health of human being?:)
- Cardiovascular efficiency increases
- Respiratory efficiency increases
- Excretory functions improve
- Dexterity skills improve
- Reaction time improves
- Posture improves
- Sleep improves
- Mood improves and subjective well-being increases
- Self-acceptance and self-actualization increase
- Anxiety and Depression decrease
- Hostility decreases
- Concentration improves
- Memory improves
- Attention improves

Here's an inspirational context from Andrew Mathews and I would like to share it with you :)

a) Decide how you think the world SHOULD be.
b) Make rules for how everyone SHOULD behave.
Then, when the world doesn't obey your rules, get angry! That's what miserable people do!
Let's say you expect that:
Friends SHOULD return favours.
People SHOULD appreciate you.
Planes SHOULD arrive on time.
Everyone SHOULD be honest.
Your husband SHOULD remember your birthday.
These expectations may sound reasonable. But often, these things won't happen!
So you end up frustrated and disappointed.
There's a better strategy.
Have less demands.
Instead, have preferences!
For things that are beyond your control, tell yourself:
"I WOULD PREFER "A", BUT IF "B" HAPPENS, IT'S OK TOO!"
This is really a game that you play in your head. It is a shift in attitude, and it gives you more peace of mind ...
You prefer that people are polite ... but when they are rude, it doesn't ruin your day.
You prefer sunshine ... but rain is ok!
To become happier, we either need to a) change the world, or b) change our thinking. It is easier to change our thinking!
My uncle called me earlier and he asked me if I know some who is interested to buy silver. He needs more clients to sell his old coins. I've told you in my previous post that he's a collector of old coins, gold and silver. He started to invest in this kind of business 5 years ago and most of his collections came at Monaco Rare Coin. Monaco is in the business for 40 years now, so my uncle did not hesitate to buy gold coins from them. I've also read some good review about this company. Anyway, I'm glad to know even there's an economic crisis he's business is booming.



Happiness is...
1. I sold some stuffs that I'm selling, yehey!:)
2. I talked to my bestfriend Don and Manang yesterday :) they are interested to buy bags from me! I hope I could get some orders :) yipee!:)
3. New stuffs are coming and still accepting orders :)
4. My husband agreed that he will bring me to the outlet everytime I wish. No ranting this time *lo*
5. Some cheap loots!:) I bough 3 pants for myself last weekend :)
6. Goldilocks pulvoron from a friend :)
7. My SIL's wedding is coming up and I'm very excited about it.
8. Affordable life insurance rate package
10. I cooked pancit canton last monday :)




Howdy?! I've been busy for the past few days and as much as I'd like to update this blog I couldn't. I was too busy in some other stuff and I'm thankful because I've given a chance to earn :) It's not as much as like my other friend but still I'm thankful! :) I'm praying for more blessing to come :) Anyway, My husband was ranting the other day because he said I was preoccupied with this "small business" and I don't have enough time with him lol And when were at the outlet store yesterday his tantrums striked! lol I'm not kidding he was! lol I was surprised because it was the first time he acted like that lol he was like a kid so I just had to buy him a cup of coffee and an egg sandwich :) And his mood was back to normal :)
Our internet connection was disconnected for almost 6 hours! Can you imagine that!? When your life is connected to the www like mine and you are disconnected your day will be totally a mess! I was ordering some stuff online for my online friend while chatting for some friends when suddenly the net was disconnected. I tried to call the internet provider but the customer representative was so rude. He can't tell me what seems to be the problem. I just ignored him and did the household chores. See I'm productive today even I'm not online :) Anyway, I got a lot of orders of Coach bags and other stuffs from my friends yippeee! Another box is coming home this August :) I just hope that I could send 2 big boxes this time ;) The box was pick up this afternoon and it will receive by my friend 30 days from now :) So if you are interested to buy some Coach bags and other stuff just leave a message. Don't worry the prices is way lower compared to other reseller in ebay :)
I haven't had a chance to update this blog, I was too busy the whole weekend. I'm not yet done organizing our photos from our previous trip and still have some photos to edit. Anyway, we went to Outlet Mall twice last weekend, was there friday and sunday. There was a lot of shoppers inside Coach store and the line was so long. Thanks to my dear husband who patiently waiting and fall in line while I'm looking for bags to sell lol at least we saved time. Also he helped me to choose which bags and watches to buy :) I got some loots and most of it is for sale lol here it is :)
These Coach Tote XL bag and coach small hobo bag are sold to Mitch
This nice watch was to Caryl and to my friend Daye (I still have 2 pcs left) Also I sold the same watch (but the face is white) to Litzie
I just have 2 bags left :) yepee!! If you are interested just buzz me :)




So let's see what's my loot next week :)
Look, I was holding a starfish :) We spent almost three hours inside the Aquarium and I was having a great time looking at the aquatic animals! I took tons of photos and my 16GB CF card was almost full! And guess what? until now I'm not yet done editing it. I know! it's been a week already. I'm just busy with some other stuff now (business LOL) Anyway, this Aquarium is bigger than the Aquaria in KL and Aquarium in Sydney :) And if given a chance I would like to go back in Monterey and I would like stay in Pebble beach even just for one night :)
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